20 Ways Social Media Is Like Your Crazy Ex
You’ve read social media comparisons before, but when it comes to strategy, have you ever stopped to think about how social networks are like your crazy ex?
Both had you enamored at first, and then you realized how much time and effort it would take to keep things going. Thrilling, exhilarating, and sometimes a little scary, here are 20 ways social media is like your crazy ex.
- Neither should be left unattended
- Both require plenty of attention
- Ignoring them can be a really bad idea
- You donât want to mess with them when youâre drunk
- You probably shouldn’t leave your kids alone with them
- They can be absolutely addicting
- They can feed your ego
- They can build you up
- They can tear you down
- They can be fickle
- They can give you a false sense of security
- They can make you fall in love with them
- They can drive you a little crazy
- Both can be exciting
- Theyâre accessible 24/7
- You remember exactly what drew you to them in the first place
- They can surprise you in unexpected ways
- You should have a plan before you approach them
- Both should be monitored
- Much like your crazy ex, you shouldn’t rely on social media for all your needs
Though this post was meant to poke fun, social media for business is no joke. Like any relationship, the ones you have cultivated through social networks require nurturing to be successful and stand the test of time.
What made you fall in love with social media? Has your relationship with social media grown and gotten better over time, or are you frustrated and leaning toward a breakup? What would you add to this list? Let me know in the comments below!
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Juana says
Hil-ar-ious! Loved it.
Trish Forant says
Glad you enjoyed!
webly says
My relationship with social media changed a whole lot once I
1) stopped taking a lot of what happens in there seriously and shut down the noise
2) decided what I will share and don’t share AT ALL
3) it is a great business tool because quite frankly I don’t have time or the energy to drive around town meeting clients one-on-one
I love it now but before I really hated it because it really makes people nosy but again it’s all about what you want them to know.
Trish Forant says
Webly, that’s right! And you can help cut down on the noise by using Twitter lists to keep people organized without actually following them. That sure does help!
Ginny Marie says
So true, especially that last part about nurturing social media relationships. It doesn’t take long for people to lose interest in you!
Stopping by from SITS Sharefest. :)
Trish Forant says
You can say that again, Ginny! Thanks for coming by and for kicking off the conversation. :)
Sarah Day says
Another hilarious post. A little scary, but hilarious.
Trish Forant says
LOL! Kinda makes you wonder what goes on in my head, huh?
Leah Sannar says
That was hysterical, how have I never made that connection? Such a fun read, thanks!
Rachel G says
heehee!! Very true, very true!
Jelli says
This was just too funny! Loved it. Everything is so true too.
Trish Forant says
Thank you, Jelli!
Tammilee says
Love this! It is so true!
Trish Forant says
Glad you liked it! Thanks for commenting.
Tonia L. Clark says
How about Facebook is like your crazy ex before we got serious my friends used to see me all the time, and now I have to jump through hoops to be seen! lol!
Trish Forant says
How could I forget that one? So very true!! HA HA!
Sylvia says
Haha I loved this post! Especially number 4 : “You donât want to mess with them when youâre drunk”. So, so true. :P
Trish Forant says
Oh yeah, that’s something you’ll regret in the morning!
Teri says
Haha! This was really funny. If social media was REALLY like my ex, I’d power down my computer and never turn it on again! ;)
Trish Forant says
I think most of these, if not all, would apply to Twitter.