We’ve all read social media comparisons before but have you ever considered how social networks are like a new lover? All consuming, exhilarating and euphoric, here are 25 ways social media is just like a new lover:
- You can’t get enough of either one
- You never want to leave its side
- You rush to them in the morning
- You give them all your attention
- You’d never think of ignoring them
- You’re constantly thinking about them
- You can spend all day wrapped up in each
- You remember exactly what drew you to them in the first place
- You believe they’re the best thing that ever happened to you
- They can keep you up at night
- They can evoke strong emotions
- They can be very exciting
- Both are totally addicting
- Both can make you forget you had a social life before them
- Both can stroke your ego
- Both can make you feel invincible
- Both can invade your dreams
- Both can make you fall in love with them
- Both can totally make your day
- Both can be stress relievers
- Both can surprise you in unexpected ways
- Both are nourished by quality instead of quantity
- Both can open your mind to new experiences
- The thought of losing either makes you break out in a cold sweat
- Too much with either can make body parts cramp or fall asleep
In order to keep your love affair with social media as thrilling as that first encounter, be sure to continue nurturing the relationships you’ve cultivated. That’s the best way to ensure they’ll stand the test of time. Hope you had a Happy Valentine’s Day!
What made you fall in love with social media? Does social media still feel as exciting today as it did the first time? What would you add to this list?
I originally published this article as 25 Ways Social Media is Like a New Lover on February 14, 2012 on the Radian6 website. Hope you enjoyed it!




Hi Dayngr, It was nice to see you stopped by my blog. Thanks for reminding tagging me in that post 6 years ago. I know my blog looks like a ghost town. Part of that is because I post to posterous (www.thephilfactor.posterous.com) and it auto-posts to blogger and several other sites. Also, I’ve written a book and a lot of friends follow on my facebook page (facebook.com/AuthorPhilTaylor) It was so nice of you to think of me and stop by my blog! I miss all my old blogging friends. Now that I have a book to promote I’ll have to read and learn from all your social media posts. Feel free to stop by my facebook page and say Hi! On blogger I’ll definitely re-add you to my list of reads. I hope all is well with you!
What a lovely blog you have! The moment I opened the page, I smiled. I love happy colors!
I have pretty much given all social media up. I dropped Facebook a couple years ago, although I still have Twitter that I post sporadically on. It just became to time consuming and I’m now very happy with my social media purge.
So glad you visited my blog, thank you!
-Marissa
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It is so nice you stopped by. I love blogging, although I do not have the same time I did when I started. Your blog looks great! I look forward to reading your posts! have a great night!
Mama Hen